I don’t watch yaoi anime simply because i don’t support the fetishization of gay relationships. most yaoi anime are basically here to be fap material for straight girls with a fetish for gay guys. There are some anime and manga series that manage to portray homosexual relationships in a good way, like yuri on ice or banana fish (only looking at ash and eiji here). another thing that is very harmful towards the gay community is the reinforcement of gender specific stereotypes with its seme/ uke bullshit, demanding that one guy HAS to behave like a stereotypical woman and the other one HAS to behave like a stereotypical man. in other words, i do watch anime that display homosexuality in a healthy way but not “yaoi”.